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What is best to do after a bad argument?
Why Active Listening Doesn't Work In Marriage And Can Make Matters Worse!
How much to disclose after an affair?
Why Are Our Conversations At Home Like TV Courtroom Drama?!
What Is The Difference Between Resentment And Hatred?
Saying "yes" when you deeply feel "no" can reduce the immediate pressure you feel in your relationship, but there is a price over time: resentment. With the number one signal of a pending divorce being contempt, what is the difference between resent ment and hatred? [Click Here For Answer]
What Is The Difference Between A Complaint And A Criticism?
I have a deep love in my heart for my wife. However, she says I am too critical of her. Truth is, I am so frustrated with her inconsiderate, passive-aggressive behavior that I feel like pulling out my hair. I don't know what is wrong with her. Her mother was the same way. She does this kind of stuff all the time. This morning I was greeted, once again, with a sink full of dishes she agreed to do last night before bed. I had to spend twenty minutes clearing them to be able to start my day, and I was late for work. What should I do?---At Wit's End [Click Here For Answer]
She Teased Me, I Teased Her, She Blew Up!: What Do I Do Now?
My wife and I banter back and forth in our relationship, and most of the time it is just good-natured kidding and playful "name calling." But last week on vacation she called me a "name" and I shot back calling her another "name" and she became very, very mad at me. So mad that the last two days of our long-awaited vacation was ruined because she stopped speaking to me! I apologized profusely, said I didn't mean it, but it took until we got home before she warmed up. There is still an uneasy distance between us. I didn't say anything to her that I had not said before. Do I just let this go to fade away over time, or do I talk to her about it? ~ Hurt and Bewildered [Click Here For Answer]
What Do I Do If I Know Someone Who Is Talking About Suicide?
I have a friend who is going through a very hard time. He won't reach out for counseling but he is talking to me. He keeps talking about not wanting to live. Yesterday he used the word suicide for the first time, what should I do?--Greatly Concerned [Click Here For Answer]
Three Bad Reasons To Separate (And One Good One)
I have had it. I want a divorce! My husband treats me like I don't exist, and I have been hurt for too long. I try to tell him how much it hurts me for him to ignore me, but we just go around and around the issue. I don't know what else to do but to leave. Maybe that will get his attention. Do you think I have good reasons for wanting to separate from him?--Ready-To-Pull-Lever Click Here For Answer
Key Points for Telling Children About a Separation and Divorce
My husband and I are separating. What's the best way to tell the children?
--On The Edge Click Here For Answer
Should I Date While Separated?
My wife and I are now separated. Our marriage got to be so troubled that our yelling and fighting was not good for the children. So, we decided to separate and cool down. It has been a month and things are calmer but no issues have been addressed. I have been contacted by an old high school girlfriend on facebook and she is moving close to my town. I would like to see her and spend time with her. Since we are separated, is it okay for me to date?--Just Wondering Click Here For Answer
My ex sends the meanest, vilest, and most threatening emails about what an awful spouse I was. Now the children are hearing about it, too. I spend hours refuting what is said, line by line, and it is exhausting. It just doesn’t stop. What can I do?--Typed Out [Click Here For Answer]
He Cheats and I'm Confused: Can I Trust Him Now?
I feel totally lost and confused in my relationship. My fiancé wants us to get married in six months. We have been together for about six years, and it has been hard. Our feeling of love is so strong, and we depend totally on each other for support. He started cheating on me, and when I finally found out, I confronted him, and then I called it quits. After a few weeks, I begged him to take me back, but he said “No,” so I moved on with my life. Then, he begged me to take him back. It was too difficult to refuse, because I felt he had changed.
Now that we are preparing to marry, I am afraid that he has not changed, and that he is still cheating but I just haven’t caught him. I know that he loves me, but I feel uncertain. Because of his cheating my parents insisted that I stop seeing him, but I saw him anyway behind their backs. I am keeping our marriage plans from my parents, and I don’t feel good about lying to them. What should I do? I am so confused. ~Is Something Fishy? [Click Here For Answer]
What Is Your Relationship Sweet Spot?
The love language of your relationship.
What Is Your Language Of Apology?
How to express "I'm sorry" in the way it matters most to your partner.
The Ultimate Relationship Buzz Kill!
How Do I Get My Partner To Lose Weight?
Our Relationship & Sexual Problems?
I am planning a surprise weekend getaway in two weeks. The kids are handled. The pets are
handled. I even have a housekeeper coming on the weekend away so the house will be fresh for my wife when we get home. We have been having some hard times the past year, and the pressure has been so strong that I decided to do something about it. This is my reason for planning this trip. We haven't been sexual or very affectionate for the past six months, so I am nervous about being close this weekend. I know in the past I have been too aggressive and have blown things up, so I don't want to do that this time. How can I be more in control of the weekend? ~Taking Action Under Pressure [Click Here For Answer]
Hidden Grief Of The Short Sale
Due to an unexpected reduction in our income, my husband and I agreed we have to sell our family home which, unfortunately, will have to be a short sale. I thought we were dealing well with the decision and sale of our home. But, suddenly my husband is constantly angry and blaming about things other than the house, including me. What felt like a strong marriage now feels like it is coming a part at the seams. Yesterday, I was caught completely by surprise when I suddenly started to cry as a friend spoke of selling their house. I feel like a huge failure. What is happening to us?---Lost [Click Here For Answer]
Stop Kidding Yourself About The Holidays!
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